The opinion about self control and anxiety of women in spain is formed mostly at men who tried to communicate with them on different latin women dating sites. Internet in Latin America is not yet a widely used method of communication and contact. That is why this method of dating hispanic women arouses some tension. Besides, not all single latin women speak fluent English and it adds to their discomfort.  Hispanic singles have very rough idea of mentality, values, norms of spanish personals with people from different countries. Many women of latin america who communicate with men through Internet, actually seem reserved and anxious. They write short standard phrases in their letters and profiles, they think long about their replies. But they do it not from self control of their character, but because of lack of experience and practice in international communication. They are afraid to be wrong understood, to be seen not in the best light and by ignorance or carelessness to hurt men´s feelings. Spanish brides as well as men, are open, communicative and emotional. They can easily speak about dating spanish men and problems that worry them to hardly known person, frankly speak about their wishes, likings and dissatisfaction. It is seen in the fact, that the profession of psychoanalytic is not demanded in latin love quotes. It is demanded in those places, where it is used to hide and suppress a hispanic brides true feelings.